My Story
Hi, I’m Trisha Meneses, the founder of The Productive Single Mum, and this is my journey.
Becoming a single mum to a child with autism completely changed my life. It brought with it challenges I never anticipated, but it also taught me resilience, patience, and the importance of creating a life rooted in balance, purpose, and love.
When my son was diagnosed with autism in 2017, I felt like my world turned upside down. I was faced with an overwhelming mix of emotions grief, uncertainty, and even guilt for not knowing how to navigate this new chapter.
The daily demands of caregiving, managing appointments, and advocating for his needs left me feeling drained. At the same time, I struggled to find time for myself, and it seemed impossible to juggle everything.
Time often felt like it was slipping through my fingers, and healing often felt out of reach. But deep down, I knew I couldn’t let those feelings define my life or my son’s future. I realized that if I wanted to create the life I envisioned for us, a life where we both could thrive I had to take control of my time, my mindset, and my approach to daily challenges. It wasn’t easy.
There were days when I felt like giving up when the weight of the world felt too heavy to carry. But I slowly started finding ways to bring structure and intention into my life. I began building systems to organize my days, manage my time, and find space for self-care and personal growth. These weren’t just tools they became lifelines that helped me navigate the challenges of autism parenting while creating a life that worked for both me and my son.
Along the way, I discovered the power of celebrating small wins, embracing flexibility, and giving myself grace. I learned that productivity isn’t about doing everything, it’s about doing what matters most. I also realized how important it is to take care of myself, not as an afterthought, but as a priority. After all, how could I show up as the best mum for my son if I wasn’t taking care of my own well-being?
That’s why I started The Productive Single Mum, to share what I’ve learned and to support other mums on their journeys. I know firsthand how isolating and overwhelming this path can feel, but I also know the incredible strength and transformation that come from it. This is a space where I can share tools, encouragement, and honest reflections to help you feel less alone and more empowered to take control of your time, your healing, and your goals.
You’re not just a mum! You’re a woman with dreams, strength, and purpose. You’re capable of creating a life where you and your family can thrive, even in the face of challenges. I hope this platform becomes a source of hope, inspiration, and practical guidance for you as you navigate your own journey.
Whether it’s learning to manage your time, embracing moments of self-care, or finding encouragement from someone who understands, I’m here to remind you that you’re not alone. Together, we can turn struggles into opportunities, and create a life filled with intention, balance, and joy. This is my story, and I hope it inspires yours
About The Productive Single Mum
The Productive Single Mum is more than a platform, it’s a movement I created to inspire and empower single mums raising children with autism to thrive in their unique journeys.
This space was born out of my personal experience as a single mum, navigating the intricate balance of caregiving, personal growth, and time management. I know firsthand the struggles of feeling overwhelmed by daily responsibilities while still trying to carve out space for healing and self-improvement.
Through this platform, I hope to provide not only practical tools but also a sense of encouragement and community for mums who may feel like they’re navigating this journey alone.
At The Productive Single Mum, my mission is simple yet profound:
To equip mums with strategies that help them manage their time, embrace intentional living, and create lives filled with purpose and productivity.
I believe:
Every mum deserves the tools to manage her time effectively. No matter how busy or challenging life gets, there are ways to regain control and make time for what matters most.
Healing and personal growth are essential to thriving, not just surviving. It’s not selfish to invest in yourself, it’s necessary for becoming the best version of yourself for your family.
Building a balanced life is possible, even with life’s unique challenges. The road isn’t always easy, but with the right mindset, support, and tools, it’s entirely achievable.
This platform is my way of celebrating your resilience, simplifying your day-to-day, and helping you create a life that feels both meaningful and fulfilling.
Whether you’re here for actionable tips, stories of shared experience, or a reminder that you’re not alone, my goal is to ensure that you feel supported every step of the way.
What You’ll Find Here:
Practical tools and strategies for managing your time and staying productive.
Encouragement to prioritize healing and self-care, even in the busiest seasons.
A supportive community where your challenges are understood, and your victories are celebrated.
I understand that every mum’s journey is unique, but I also know that we all share a desire to create a better life for ourselves and our children.
This platform is here to remind you that you’re not just surviving, you’re growing, thriving, and becoming stronger with each step. Let’s walk this journey together, one step at a time. You’ve got this, and I’m here to help.